Feminism is the rejection of the gender role which God
assigned to women. The same goes for homosexuality. So it is no
surprise that the rise of homosexuality has corresponded to the rise of
feminism. The corruption of American society and culture over the las
few decades is largely due to the rise of feminism. Feminism has largely
destroyed the family, and has been the justification for the mos
hideous of crimes, namely the murder of the innocent and vulnerable.
Feminists murder their own children. Ironically feminists claim that men
are the violent. But women far outdo the violent crimes of men,
decimating the entire population of the nation by murdering their own
children. Feminists have murdered over 50 million babies. These
feminazis make Hilter look good. Now the US is seeing its slowes
population growth since 1930, which is due to abortion and women being
unmarriable because of the influence of feminism. And likewise with
divorce. The rise of divorce corresponds to the rise of feminism. And
the rise of pornography is partly due to men seeking alternatives due to
the fact that women are largely unmarriable. And there's no hope of
things getting better as feminists take control of the education and
political systems. Today, due to the discrimination against men, there
are more women than men getting college degrees, resulting in the
dumbing down of society. Men are being discouraged from attending
college, while women are promoted as future leaders. (See
http://mjperry.blogspot.com/2010/04/update-on-increasing-college-degree-gap.html)
We can only expect an increasing rise in male-bashing and discrimination
against men.
Economics has also been influenced by the rise of feminism. Doubling the
workforce halves the wages and consequently forces all
women into the workforce and makes raising a family unaffordable. Debts
increase due to the feminist sense of dependency rather than male
self-reliance. Feminist influenced has bankrupted the country and swelled
the number of welfare recipients. Feminists rely upon the government to
take care of them, while non-feminists take personal responsibility for
their own welfare. Feminists obsess over outward appearance - keeping
up with the Jones - disregarding private debt. And then if their
expectations aren't realized, they simply blame it on men
The Feminists Influence in the Christian Community
"Youths oppress my people, women rule over them. O my people, your guides lead you astray; they turn you from the path." Isaiah 3:12
Over the last century Americans have been largely led astray with
respect to the proper role relationship between the sexes. The
influence of feminism particularly over the last few decades has
had tremendous destructive impact upon society and yet has gone largely
unchecked both in the world and in the church. And though much as
Americans boast of a culture of freedom of ideas and freedom of speech,
yet any kind of
scrutinizing of feminism has been largely disallowed and characterized
as bigoted, a reaction of which is itself bigoted, is it not?
Evangelical Feminism is perhaps most disturbing seeing as the Bible
makes clear and unambiguous statements which are in stark contrast to
feminism. And yet I've found over the decades that churches are mos
reluctant to even bring up the subject and actually teach what the
Bible says on the matter, and those who do are often castigated, even
driven out of churches. In fact when churches do teach on the subject,
most frequently it's with the intent of trying to get around what the
Bible clearly states. Consequently seeing that few are willing to take
a public Biblical stand on the matter, and seeing as there's been so
much damage due to feminism over the years, I decided to write this
article.
Much as there may be many definitions of "feminism", what I'm talking
about when I say "feminism" here is the rejection of what the Bible
teaches concerning male headship, as for example it says:
"Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God." 1Cor 11:3
And much as feminists may disagree with one another on various points,
you would be hardpressed to find a feminist, whether one who identifies
themselves as a conservative evangelical or a liberal, who doesn't take
issue with what the Bible says here.
The Bibical fact is,
"man did not come from woman, but woman from man; neither was man created for woman, but woman for man." 1Cor 11:8,9 It's not a matter of "culture" as if one could discard such an idea with a
"that was then, this is now"
attitude. It's a timeless principle inherent in the very nature of men
and women, part of God's intended purpose in creating the distinction
of the sexes. And what has happened to American culture over the
decades is what happens when you discard that principle.
One purpose behind God's creation of the gender roles is that i
teaches the virtue of subordination. Notice the three vertical
relationships pointed out in
1Cor 11:3 "Now
I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the
head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God."
God
Christ
Man
Woman
Do you think Christ is all bothered with the idea of being subordinate
to His Father? Do you think a Christian man is going to object to the
idea of being subordinate to Christ? So why is it that even Christian
women reckon with contempt the very idea of being subordinate to men?
Many I've talked to speak with disdain the very concept of
subordination, equating it with an oppressive form of slavery. Yet over
the decades I've found that American men, despite the emphasis on
freedom in this country, don't have such a serious problem with
subordination as women do. In fact you put a bunch of men together and
they form a hierarchy, like a football team. A lot of times teenage men
who grow up in a rebellious environment, of the effect of being raised
by a single mother, will frequently try to find a place where they can
be under authority, such as joining the military, joining a gang, or
like situations, because taking a role of subordination comes
naturally to men, a fact of which wives have used to their advantage,
treating their husbands in just the same way as they would never allow
themselves to be treated. But men are made to be subordinate to Christ,
and Christ himself to God. But you put a bunch of women together
and they don't tend to form a hierarchy, they tend to form a committee.
Giving orders to women is stepping on egg shells. For some reason,
unlike men, they just can't take it.
Women can't take criticism because women are characteristically proud in comparison to men. That's one of their many weaknesses. For they are the weaker vessel in many ways.
Christ the Model of Subordination
It's a matter of humility. The Bible says,
"Do
nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility
consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look no
only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.Your
attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very
nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,
but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being
made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he
humbled himself and became obedient to death— even death on a cross!" Php 2:3-8
Here Christ sets the example of humility. He complies with the wishes
of the one in authority over him despite the personal cost to himself.
It says that
"Although he was a son, he learned obedience from what he suffered" Heb 5:8 Obedience is never really in play until you are commanded to do that which you are reluctant to do. Jesus said,
"I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me." John 6:38 And in the end he said,
"My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will." Mt 26:39
Christian men generally have no problem in seeing this as the idea in
being subordinate to their head, namely Christ. But such is no
generally characteristic of Christian wives towards their head, namely
their husband. While it's in the Christian marriage vows where the wife
pledges to obey her husband, it's quite a different story in practice.
While the wife should have in her mind,
"I have gotten married not to do my own will but the will of my husband",
how often if ever is that the case? And if instructed to do something
that may require great personal sacrifice, something of which she
didn't want to do, to the modern American women, that's simply grounds
for divorce, let alone if when asked to be released from such
instruction, the husband refuses, as also also God refused Christ his
request. If today a husband treats his wife as God treated Christ, tha
marriage would likely end in divorce if not imprisonment.
In fact, let me further validate that point. Let's say God married a feminist, such as Isaiah describes in
Isaiah 3:12 in t he statement
"women rule over them". How do you think that would turn out? It would end up like this, where God says,
"I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries." Jer 3:8a And I think such would also be the case if God married a typical modern American evangelical feminist.
The main issue in embracing a role of subordination is embracing
the virtue of humility. Why is that men can accept criticism while
women cannot. In fact men often help one another maintain a proper
level of humility by trying to humiliate one another, and it is
considered manly to laugh it off. But humiliate a woman in the same
manner and you'll have a revelation of the difference between the
sexes. Why can't women take criticism? Or why can't they take it to the
extent men can? Because as a gender women are characteristically proud in
comparison to men. Yet humility is the most essential of all virtues.
It is the character quality upon which all other virtues are built, and
that which the Lord most values.
The Lord declares, "This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word." Is 66:2b But concerning the women who rule over men, the Lord goes on to says,
"The women of Zion are haughty, walking along with outstretched necks,
flirting with their eyes, tripping along with mincing steps, with
ornaments jingling on their ankles." Is 3:16 Much as
they reckon God's Word with contempt, so also God reckons them with
contempt. And consequently I think many an Evangelical Feminist has
deceived themselves into thinking they have a right relationship with
God. Some have pointed out how churches are full of women
demographically, claiming that women are therefore more spiritual than
men. But as I see it if women are dominant in churches, it's also
because they're driving men away, as many a man can't stand the stench
of evangelical feminism.
Women often cloud their pride, even to themselves, with misconceptions
about pride, using terms like having a poor self-image. You know what a
poor self-image is? It's pride. Humility is a realistic view of oneself
in view of God. We had a men's Bible study in which I criticized one
guy, a good friend of mine, and he took offense, but calmed down and
excused himself for being too sensitive. I told him he's not being
sensitive, he's just being proud. Women are often excused for rage
with the idea that they are fragile and sensitive. But such terms often
cloud the fact that they often react out of pride. Pride is the primary
root of their destructive influence upon their own lives and upon the
lives of others around them.
Women the Weaker Vessel
Fact is, it's difficult for women to live up to the standards of men. For the Bible characterizes women as the
"weaker partner".
And such is not just the case physically, but in practically all areas
of life, including virtues. As I noted above, men are stronger than
women when it comes to humility. And such is generally the case for
most virtues. Take greed for example. Men are not so insecure abou
money as women are. Consequently you will find many a generous man, bu
women are generally reluctant to practice generosity to the degree men
do, in my experience. Consider also neutral attributes, like
intelligence. Women do not have the capacity for intelligence to the
degree men have. I'm talking about intelligence, not schooling. Raw
intelligence is largely what nature brings to the table. Consequently,
given women's disadvantage, the American education system has had to
dumb down the system to accommodate women, as it also discourages men
from persuing advanced degrees, while filling colleges with women, the
consequence of which is not more intelligent women, but a less
intelligent workforce. And through "equal rights" legislation, capable
men are replaced with less capable women.
Male and female mean IQs are about equal below the age of 15 but males
have a higher mean IQ from age 15 on. As noted by Lynn, R., &
Irvwing P. (2004) And for example the membership of Mensa Canada,
representative of those with high IQ's, has twice as many men than
women in 2007. The effect of sex differences in IQ is largest at the
high extreme of intelligence. For instance, at the near-genius
level (an IQ of 145), brilliant men outnumber brilliant women by 8 to
one. That's statistics, not sexism. Since many of the more prestigious
roles in society are associated with high IQ, the lack of female
representation in these roles may be partially due to fewer females
being competitive at the highest levels. Such is the case in science
and engineering where few women have shown the capacity to handle such
careers on equal footing with men. But that's the nature of things. Bu
due to feminism, in 2005, the distinguished economist Lawrence Summers
was forced to resign as President of Harvard University after
expressing the view, at a seminar on diversity in the academic
workplace, that in some fields the innate cognitive differences between
the sexes might make the search for a perfect 50:50 gender balance
impossible. Because it is the nature of feminism to reject such truths.
As I mentioned, women can't take criticism because they are
characteristically proud in comparison to men. Women obsess over vain
things - their outward appearance. They train their husbands to
lie. They don't want to hear the truth. They just want to be flattered.
Women not to Teach or have Authority over Men
Let's now consider what the Bible teaches about women's role in 1Tim 2:11-14
1Tim 2:11 Let a woman learn in
silence
with all submission.
This verse is probably best understood in light of the verses which
follow it. There Paul not only gives a particular application of this
idea
but also defends it with scripture.
What Paul means by this verse is much the same as he meant in
1Cor
14:34 "Let your women keep silent in the
churches,
for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as
the law also says." That is, it is not appropriate for women to
exercise authority over men - one of the main exercises of authority in
the Christian community being that of teaching (Explaining the Word of
God) or prophecy (speaking applications of the Word of God), the
contex
of 1Cor 14:34 being that of public prophesying. And the verse which
follows
1Cor 14:34 also says, "And if they want to learn
something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful
for women to speak in church." Here we see the allusion to
teaching
as well. But interesting to note his saying that "it is shameful for
women
to speak in church." This is much along the lines of what he was saying
in 1Tim concerning women these last few verses - dealing with dress,
for
example. These all allude to the issue of appropriateness.
To be yet dealt with in the next few verses is whether the
appropriateness
or shamefulness had to just do with the culture back then, or whether
Paul
is speaking of a more universal principle which applies even today.
1Tim 2:12 And I do not permit a
woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.
Note again the similar words used in these two sets of verses:
1Cor 14:34,35 "Let your women
keep SILENT in the churches, for they are not permitted to
speak;
but they are to be SUBMISSIVE, as the law also says. And if
they
want to LEARN something, let them ask their own husbands a
home;
for it is shameful for women to speak in church."
1Tim 2:11,12 "Let a woman LEARN
in SILENCE with all SUBMISSION. And I do not permit a
woman
to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in SILENCE."
From verse 12 we gain insight as to what he means by the "silence" he
was
speaking of in the previous verse, as well as the silence he had spoken
of with respect to women in
1Cor 14:34. Essentially women are
no
allowed as spokesmen in the church.
As we saw in 1Cor 14:34,35, women are not allowed to
publicly
teach men, whether by way of explanation or prophecy. But in addition
we
see in this verse they were not allowed to hold positions of authority
over men. And thus many churches today don't allow women in leadership
roles in the church in which they would either be instructing men or
otherwise
exercising authority over men.
And we can see this principle also in Jesus' ministry - as well as
throughou
the Bible. For example none of the apostles Jesus chose were women.
Why?
Next Paul explains this principle from the scriptures.
1Tim 2:13 For Adam was formed first,
then Eve.
This is the first of Paul's two scriptural reasons as to why he does
not allow women to teach or hold positions of authority over men.
The first thing we notice is that it's not a "cultural issue".
Rather
it's based upon the very nature of the relationship God define between
men and women from Genesis. Therefore I discard any sort of "that was
then,
this is now" type of attitude towards these commands concerning women.
Secondly, remember the similar application he had in 1Cor 14:34,
but which he added the defense "as the law also
says".
Where in the law was he alluding? Well we see from this verse that one
place he had in mind was Genesis chapter 2. Remember that Genesis is
the
first book of the Law of Moses. Though he may also have had other
places
in the law in mind.
It is interesting that he has a very similar approach to the
applications
of what Genesis says of Adam and Eve as Jesus did when he spoke on the
issue of divorce. Notice in Mark 10 Jesus' usage of Genesis
saying:
"But from the beginning of the creation, God
‘made
them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man shall leave his
father
and mother and be joined to his wife, ‘and the two shall become one
flesh’;
so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has
joined
together, let not man separate."
So also using the same hermeneutic as Paul and Jesus with respect to
Adam and Eve one could argue against homosexuality or polygamy. Thus
wha
the Bible says of Adam and Eve apparently is to be viewed as a
preceden
from which applications can be derived.
Now the particular fact that Paul focused on in this case was the
ORDER
of creation. From the order of creation Paul inferred that is was
contrary
to the design for a woman to exercise authority over a man.
Also we notice from Paul's application that what the Bible says of
Adam
and Eve doesn't apply exclusively to husband-wife relationships. For
here
he is applying it more generically - not just to marriages.
In 1Cor 11 he argues in a similar fashion using the Genesis
of
Adam and Eve, but with a view towards the application of women taking
on
a SYMBOL of one being under male authority - which is an
outward
affirmation of God's created order, when he says,
"For man is not from woman, but woman from
man.
Nor was man created for the woman, but woman for the man. For this
reason
the woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head,
because
of the angels." 1Cor 11:8-10
Thus Paul is concerned with the church acknowledging God's design,
His
created order, both in symbol and in practice.
1Tim 2:14 And Adam was not deceived,
but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.
This is the second scriptural reason as to why Paul does not allow
women
to teach or otherwise practice authority over men. And again it's based
on the precedent of Adam and Eve. But what is the precedent in this
case.
In the previous verse Paul had spoken of the order of creation. It's
possible
that here he is alluding to the order of the fall. So that in both
cases
it's an issue of order. But it seems to me that in this verse Paul is
no
so much emphasizing the order of the fall, but the manner of the fall,
twice using the word "deceived". He seems to be emphasizing the issue
of
one's gullibility.
If Eve's behavior is that which is characteristic of women, then
Paul
may be inferring from that precedent that women are in some significan
sense more gullible than men. Well that's not a particularly
politically
correct thing to say these days. But if it was gullibility Paul was
speaking
of, one can understand why he didn't allow women in positions of
teaching
authority, in that they would be more susceptible to being led astray
and
thus leading others astray. Afterall elsewhere he also speaks as such, "Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives‘ tales" 1Tim 4:7 Such things women are particularly prone to.
And it's furthermore possible that while verse 13 is the explanation
as to why it is not appropriate for women to hold positions of
authority
over men, this verse may be a further explanation as to why they
shouldn'
be in the position of teaching men. In fact even among men the Bible
instructs
"let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a
stricter
judgment." Jam 3:1 Such positions are reserved for those
with the appropriate abilities and the maturity which comes from
experience "casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself agains
the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the
obedience
of Christ." Teaching is a battle in the realm of ideas - not suited for
the gullible.
And speaking of the gullible, some have fallen into the false idea
tha
upon becoming Christian, women are no longer under the precedents of
Genesis
concerning the creation and fall of Eve - but that Christian
women
are to have an equal role - equal positions - with that of men in all
things.
Such people have been deceived. For in contrast to such an egalitarian
idea, the apostle applies those precedents in Genesis to Christian men
and women in his gender specific commands. (As politically incorrect as
that may be!)
In contrast, the unbelievably silly notions that evangelical feminists
come up with to get around such scriptures, and the fact the women are
led astray by feminist theology just goes to prove the point that the
interpretation of scripture should not be entrusted to women.
The Religious Realm Only?
Christians are often accused of hypocrisy in acting one way in church
and a different way out of church. Such would be the case also if the
principle of male headship were limited to the religious realm, or jus
to the family. For reasons Paul gives for not assigning women to roles
of teaching or having authority over men is just as valid outside the
church. For the reasons he gives has to do with the very nature of the
sexes. To behave differently in society is hypocrisy.
Consequently, for example, when it comes to elections, I celebrate
God's distinct role of the genders by not voting for women. It is
ungodly for women to be in authority over men. Likewise I advise men to
avoid women who make themselves out to be teachers, and particularly
teachers of men. It's ungodly for women to teach men in an official
capacity, and any capacity it's to be understood that women easily end
up teaching falsely.
The basis of feminism lies in a rejection of God's design of the role
relationships between men and women and in particular is a rejection of
the women's subordinate role, not only to man, but to God.
"Now I want you to realize that the head of every
man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Chris
is God." 1Cor 11:3
This basic principle of female subordination to male authority is no
only disregarded by the church, let alone by the world, but also mos
women contemptuously reckon such an idea as sin, thus calling good evil
and evil good. For the role of subordination God assigned to women is a
good thing, something the godly would embrace, just as Christ embraces
his subordinate role to the Father. But as David said,
"the godly are no more", so it is today.
"While
I was still searching but not finding— I found one upright man among a
thousand, but not one upright woman among them all." Ecc 7:28
Isaiah writes,
"Their children are rebellious and
women rule over them. O my people, your guides lead you astray; they
turn you from the path." Isaiah 3:12
These go hand in hand. For while the role of the husband is that of
leadership, which is reflected in their children by such things as
their children taking initiative, the role of the wife is that of
subordination, by which their children learn humility and submission.
Consequently rebellious children are the result of women usurping
authority over men. Christian leadership today, dominated by Evangelical
Feminist have largely led the Christian community today in this regard,
largely neglecting even so much as mentioning verses which speak on the
woman's role. And worse yet, teaching false interpretations of such
verses so as to comply with the demands and thinking of the feminists
upon whom they are financially dependent.
A few verses later Isaiah writes, The LORD says,
"The women of Zion are haughty,
walking along with outstretched necks, flirting with their eyes,
tripping along with mincing steps, with ornaments jingling on their
ankles. Therefore the Lord will bring sores on the heads of the women
of Zion; the LORD will make their scalps bald." Is 3:16,17 Pride
characterizes such women. Why is it that men can accept criticism, bu
women cannot? It's because of pride. Characteristically preachers will
make fun of men, but they won't make fun of women. Why? Because women
are proud and won't take it. Women are characteristically proud and as
such reckon with contempt the idea of submitting themselves to male
authority.
The role of husband is a legitimate God given role of authority. Ye
today such an idea is largely disregarded. And not only so, but rather
wives rule over their husbands.
"Wives, submi
to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the
wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the
Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should
submit to their husbands in everything." Eph 5:22-24
And just as wives don't submit to their husbands, so also such a
reflection of the church's attitude towards Christ. With the rise of
feminism has come the rise of Free Grace Theology with its rejection of
the Lordship of Christ. Thus the average Christian today reckons
submission to Christ a matter of convenience, just like wives today who
claim to "submit" to their husbands when it's convenient for them, or
whenever on a whim they feel like or already intended to do their
husband's will. But obedience is never really in play until one has to
say,
"Not my will but yours be done". Indeed today wives will
not even so much as submit to their husband's will as their husbands
submit to their will. Indeed it is men, not women, today who provide
the model of humility and subordination, men taking up the role which
prideful rebellious women largely have rejected.
Meanwhile women usurp positions of authority over men in the church and in the world. But Paul writes,
"A
woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a
woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For
Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; i
was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner." 1Tim 2:11-14
In the nature of creation God has assigned men, not women, the role of
authority. And the nature of the fall has shown women to be poor
leaders and prone to being deceived by the devil. What did God say to
Adam,
To Adam he said, "Because you
listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded
you, ‘You must not eat of it,’ "Cursed is the ground because of you;
through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life." Gen 3:17 All because he listened to his wife. Consequently, ever since then, wives have been trying to mislead their husbands.
Women often say that men are violent. But women are far more violen
than men, not the mention angry. For they are driven not by their
reason but by their emotions. How frequently do you hear of fathers
murdering their own children? Yet women do so in abundance. In the US
alone mothers have murdered 50million of their own babies, innocen
children. There's nothing new here. Way back in the book of Kings, "the
king said to her,
"What is troubling you?" And
she answered, "This woman said to me, ‘Give your son, that we may ea
him today, and we will eat my son tomorrow.’ "So we boiled my son, and
ate him. And I said to her on the next day, ‘Give your son, that we may
eat him’; but she has hidden her son." 2Kings 6:28,29
Likewise today mothers eat their own young, having lost all sensitivity,
and yet they so proudly and persistently demand the right to do so,
such that now the world has made it legal.
"Man did not come from woman, but woman from man; neither was man created for woman, but woman for man." 1Cor 11:8,9
But what women have evolved into are monsters, not only being useless,
but harmful. The rise of feminism is the 20th century corresponds to
the rise in divorce, abortion, sexual immorality and the destruction of
marriage. Indeed, even to the rise of homosexuality. For as society has
listened to women in their rejection of the assigned gender role, so
also boundary between the sexes disappear.
"A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing, for the LORD your God detests anyone who does this." Deut 22:5 Yet this has been a distinguishing characteristic of feminism, as is also the shaven head on women and long hair on men.
"Does not the very nature of things teach you that if a man has long
hair, it is a disgrace to him, but that if a woman has long hair, it is
her glory? For long hair is given to her as a covering." 1Cor 11:14,15
Men, don't be like Adam. Stop voting for women. Stop assigning women
positions of authority over men. Stop listening to the commands of your
wife. Yes, they will be angry. That's their nature. Yes they will
divorce you. That's their nature.
Feminist Double Standard
A Worldly Blog reflects modern feminists values. It gives 4 reasons "to
dump him". To show the hypocrisy of such blogs, let's see how it reads
if we turn the tables.
The First Reason the Modern Feminists give "to dump him" is:
1. He isn't supportive. The
modern woman expects a true life partner. Gone are the days of aspiring
to take care of a man or putting your needs on the backburner for his.
Non-supportive traits include:
- Making fun of or belittling your goals and ambitions in career or life
- Making you feel guilty for spending time at work
- Not helping around the house
- Ignoring you in times of need or distress
- Pressuring you into making life decisions like quitting your job, moving or having children
If you bring it up and he still doesn't get it, dump him.
Now let's turn that around. For if women were judged by the same standards as men, as feminists claim, this would read:
The 1st Reason to dump her:
1. She isn't supportive. The
modern man expects a true life partner. Gone are the days of aspiring
to take care of a woman or putting your needs on the backburner for hers.
Non-supportive traits include:
- Making fun of or belittling your goals and ambitions in career or life
- Making you feel guilty for spending time at work
- Not helping around the house
- Ignoring you in times of need or distress
- Pressuring you into making life decisions like quitting your job, moving or having children
If you bring it up and she still doesn't get it, dump her.
Let's continue:
The Feminist advocates dumping him if:
2. You can't be yourself around him.
Are you playing a character of who you think he wants to be with? No
only does this perpetuate a relationship based on lies (even if it's
just through omission), but it also can be detrimental to your emotional
well-being.
Lying about your job or considering a breast enhancement just to
impress someone or to fit into their "ideal" is a bad idea. The bes
partners are the ones who make you feel great in your own skin and who
you can relax around. If you reveal your true self to someone you're
dating, and he doesn't appreciate your true colors, dump him.
Conversely men should dump women if:
2. You can't be yourself around her.
Are you playing a character of who you think she wants to be with? No
only does this perpetuate a relationship based on lies (even if it's
just through omission), but it also can be detrimental to your emotional
well-being.
Lying about your job or considering a male enhancement just to
impress someone or to fit into their "ideal" is a bad idea. The bes
partners are the ones who make you feel great in your own skin and who
you can relax around. If you reveal your true self to someone you're
dating, and she doesn't appreciate your true colors, dump her.
3. He's a user. We all know the type - the
freeloading dude who spends his days in the coffee shop, nights playing
in a band and lives with his parents. However, users aren't always this
easy to spot. It may start slowly as he "forgets" his wallet or has his
car "repaired," but if you notice that these situations are becoming
more normal than exceptions, it's time to run. You are not an ATM, a taxi driver, a cell phone
provider, hotel or sex machine. A real relationship consists of
contributions from both sides -- not just emotionally but also
financially. If you think he's taking advantage of your generosity, dump him
Then you would think, conversely:
3. She's a user. We all know the
type - the
freeloading woman who spends her days in the coffee shop, nights playing
around and lives with her parents. However, users aren't always this
easy to spot. It may start slowly as she "forgets" her purse or has her
car "repaired," but if you notice that these situations are becoming
more normal than exceptions, it's time to run. You are not an ATM, a
taxi driver, a cell phone
provider, hotel or sex machine. A real relationship consists of
contributions from both sides -- not just emotionally but also
financially. If you think she's taking advantage of your generosity, dump her.
4. He doesn't get along with your friends and/or family.
What would life be without your girlfriends? Any person you are
seriously considering dating also will most likely spend time with the
people in your life who you care about. While variety is the spice of life, if you find that your new boo and
your friends or family are getting into knock-down, drag-out fights, he
speaks to them inappropriately or talks about them badly in public,
despite your feelings, dump him.
And conversely
4. She doesn't get along with your friends and/or family.
What would life be without your guy friends? Any person you are
seriously considering dating also will most likely spend time with the
people in your life who you care about. While variety is the spice of life, if you find that your new girl and
your friends or family are getting into knock-down, drag-out fights, she
speaks to them inappropriately or talks about them badly in public,
despite your feelings, dump her.
Typically Feminists don't apply the same standard to men as they apply
to women. Women get away with murder, literally in the case of abortion.
Ask yourself, if a "modern women" were treated as they treat men, if
they judge themselves by the same standard they judge men, how would
they feel about that? Hypocrites!
Notes Under Development
Why the reluctance of churches to teach against feminism?
Goes unchecked in the Christian community - not allowed to scrutinize.
God's Rebellious Kids
God's Failed Married
Jesus' example of subordination
Marriage - the analogy of Christ and the Church
Jesus didn't choose women as apostles
Destructive Effects of Feminism
Sexual immorality - divorce and adultery.
Marriage - what angers husbands most.
Teaching men to lie
Voting & Holding positions of authority over men
Positions of Teaching
Submission in Marriage
Conditional?
Usurping authority - bossy (Men, need guidance? Get married
and you will be told what to do every moment of the day)
Dress - outward appearance - egalitarian
Children
Rejection of the concept of Male authority in the family
Father's Authority
Husband's Authority
Divorce & Adulterous Remarriages &
http://www.biblenews1.com/marriage/marriags.htm
Cohabitation resulting in bastards (Bastardization of the population)
http://www.hist.umn.edu/~ruggles/cohab-revised2.pdf
Custody awards
http://www.proactivechange.com/divorce/statistics/graph.htm
Sexual Immorality, Homosexuality
Murder
http://www.johnstonsarchive.net/policy/abortion/graphusabrate.html
Rise of Irrationalism, Illogical, Emotionally based ideas - Theories of Post Modernism.