1John 4:7-12 (web)

The Evidence from Loving as God Loved

4:7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God;
and everyone who loves is born of God, and knows God.
4:8 He who doesn't love doesn't know God, for God is love.

4:9 By this was God's love revealed in us,

that God has sent his one and only Son into the world
that we might live through him.

4:10 In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us,
and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins.
{"atoning sacrifice" is from the Greek "hilasmos," an appeasing, propitiating, or the means of appeasement or propitiation - the sacrifice that turns away God's wrath because of our sin.}
 

4:11 Beloved, if God loved us in this way, we also ought to love one another.
4:12 No one has seen God at any time.
If we love one another, God remains in us,
and his love has been perfected in us.

Discussion Questions

vs 7 From vs 7,8 what is an indication that a person is born of God?
I suspect everyone in the world demonstrates love at one time or another,
does that mean the everyone in the world is "born of God"?
What does he mean by "everyone who is loving"?
vs 8 Is there any difference between say "God is love" and "love is God"?
vs 9 What in particular stands out to you about what God did that really demonstrated to you the character of God's love?
vs 11 How might that particular fact (from your answer to vs 9) be applied in the Christian community?
vs 12 Whose "love" is he referring to? Our love, or God's love?
In what way has God's love been perfected?
Has it been perfected before it is "in us" when we receive it, or is it in the process of being perfected as it is in us?
And if it's in the process of being perfected, then how might you explain it being in the perfect tense? Is whether God's loves has been perfected in us indicative of whether or not we are born of God?


Commentary

Love One Another

1John 4:7,8  Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

It seems John reiterates this point for emphasis. Apart from the very fundamental truths of the faith, doctrinal correctness is not the primary measure of whether one is born of God. Rather the primary measure is love for fellow Christians. You'll find plenty of alleged Christians who zealously defend their particular denominational doctrine and make it the standard of salvation, but who also exercise a zealous illegitimate hatred for any Christian outside of their denomination. To the degree to which they behave in this manner, one can confidently say that such alleged Christians have not been born of God.



God's Demonstration of Love

1John 4:9,10 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.

Elsewhere it says, "God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."Rom 5:8 I think the reason he brings this up is that if we are commanded to love one another, we have to understand what is meant by "love". The way the world thinks of "love" is generally much different than what John is referring to here as "love". In fact the American Heritage Dictionary doesn't even contain the Biblical definition of love. It simply associates love with certain feelings or sexual desire. But as I said previously, Biblical love is not simply a "feeling" of affection. Rather it is the willful intention of meeting the real needs of others. As such, Biblical love is measurable by the degree to which you are meeting the real needs of those you allegedly "love". And this is where the cross serves as an example.

Notice in particular that the example of the cross is not one in which you love those who love you. Jesus said, "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ love those who love them." Luke 6:32 Nor is it an example of loving those who are good enough to be worthy of your love. Rather it is an example of loving sinners. If you feel other Christians are not good enough for you to love, then you're not following the example of the cross.



God So Loved

1John 4:11,12  Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

There's an interesting fact about the word "so" here of which few may realize  impacts the meaning. "So", the Greek word "houtos", does not refer to the magnitude of God's love but to the manner of God's love. Likewise "houtos" is used in John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son ..." The meaning is "For God in this manner love the world .." It does not mean "For God love the world so much"

So also here the idea is not that God love us so much that we should love one another so much. But rather since God loved us in this manner (the cross), in this manner we should love one another.

"No one has ever seen God, but God the One and Only, who is at the Father’s side, has made him known." John 1:18 And in particular we know God's love through his Son and what he did on the cross.

If we love others in that manner, then God's love for us has fulfilled its objective in our lives.


Paraphrase

Beloved, one reason why Christians love one another is because they can identify with God who is the source of love, having been born of God and knowing him personally. Those who don't love obviously don't know God. God's love was best revealed when he sent his son to save us from our sins and give us eternal life. And if this is the way that God loved us, shouldn't we also love one another in a similar manner?


Rap

4:7 Dear friends let us love one another, for from God does come love
And I say everyone who loves, knows God and is born from above.
8 Whoever does not practice love, does not so much as know God
Because God does encompass, all that is love, so this should not seem very odd.
9 This is how God showed his love, he sent down his one true Son
Into the world, so that we might live, together through him as one
10 It wasn't because we loved God, that he sent his Son to atone
But because God love us, and so made such a fuss, to pay for our sins alone.
11 Dear friends since God so love us, we also should love one another
This is how we respond, to the way God love us, by each one loving his brother


The Boston Christian Bible Study Resources


Jan 15,2008